I have struggled with obesity all my life. Suffering from PCOS and multiple autoimmune disorders have not made it any easier. Year after year I would try the new fad diet and be successful for a short while. Only to feel defeated and resort back to what I knew. Even at my best adult weight I was not happy with my self-image. Food became a coping mechanism from some traumatic experiences. After two miscarriages I fell into a depression and struggled to pick myself up. Then at the end of 2021 my husband and I were given an opportunity to give a child a home. I quickly realized I needed her more than she needed me. I knew I wanted to be here for her and not just exist. I wanted to be a parent who played an active role in her life. We officially adopted our daughter in July 2024.
I began researching multiple bariatric programs and always came back to KBI. I’m so thankful that I chose this practice. Dr. Smith is an amazing surgeon who goes above and beyond to care for his patients.
Even though I knew I needed this surgery I had a fear of failure. I would repeat the quote from Joyce Meyer, “when you do feel fear, keep going forward and do what you are supposed to do. Or as I like to say, do it afraid.” Taking that first step is always the hardest, but each new step becomes easier.
I have lost 260 lbs. at 21 months post op but have gained so much more. I’ve gained my life back. I gained self-love, self-worth, and self-confidence. No matter where you start, you deserve the same. I began to appreciate the things that a lot of people may take for granted, such as crossing my legs, putting my shoes on or being able to walk across the room without being out of breath, and riding roller coasters with my daughter.
From my first appointment I could see the dedication and compassion the staff at KBI had for their patients. I never once felt I couldn’t do it, because they have been one of my biggest cheerleaders. If I can do it anyone can do it. My only regret is not doing it sooner.